I don't know what to do about this situation.. I've been with this girl for over a year now. And she lives in Texas, but is moving down here for FL in December. But right now we've been having some issues. And last night she was talking to an ex love of hers and the girl ALWAYS brings them up and asks if maybe this happened or if this was this way if they'd work and my girlfriend never denied it and even said she was curious to know what would have happened. So naturally I couldn't completely believe her no matter how much I wanted to that she wouldn't leave me for the other girl. Now she's claiming to be the victim and saying that it hurt her and when I messaged her she said she didn't know if she wanted to talk to me right now because I hurt her. So I guess my questions are 1) Did I really do anything wrong for her to be acting like this, and 2) Did I have a right to be a bit iffy about the whole thing and not be able to completely believe her?

Christina- 1. You didn't do anything wrong, she shouldn't be talking about her ex girlfriends to you anyways. and 2, Yes You have every right in the world to be iffy and not completely believe her. I'd talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. Tell her that its hurts you or makes you upset when she talks about her ex's to you and says "what if..". Communication is the key to relationship Survival.

-Alice

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