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I really don't know what to do....
I am Bi and I've had the same boyfriend for almost two years...but in
that amount of time I realized that I was bi. I made this realization
through my best friend. I would hang out with her and we would be
sitting on the couch watching TV and I would be thinking to myself how
hot she looked in her tanktop...and what would happen if we made out.
While I had a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows now that I am Bi and he is
ok with me "experimenting" with other girls like me. At the beginning
of this year my best friend told me she was a Lesbian which at the time
got me REALLY excited. I like her alot, and I've had on going fantasies
of her...and I even told her once I wanted to kiss her...the thing is
she said that I'm just too close a friend, and it's not worth the
"risk." What do I do...? Give up and worry about just my boyfriend or
keep entertaining these thoughts in my head secretly...or not so
secretly?
When I got into a relationship with my best friend, we were both very scared that things wouldn't work out, and we would hate each other, or rather, I'd hate them. At first, I was sore about the subject because I love them. Of course, after a while, I realized it was for the better. We're only teenagers, and things have to roll at their own pace and work themselves out. If she's really a good friend, then you shouldn't worry about you two not being friends anymore. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you...ask her if she does. And if she does, tell her that you want to try it out, no strings attached. If things work, then let them be, if they don't, patch your friendship.
If you don't think that it's possible for any of this to happen, especially the friendship thing, then I'd say stick with your boyfriend if you truely care about him, if you don't, don't stay in a relationship that you're going to be untrue to.
Hope this helps.
-Alice.
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