Ok its been three to four years since i have dated a guy and about five years since ive been out, but recently this guy Oscar has kinda got my attention he is a great guy everything i had said i wanted if i ever got with a guy but i am so uncomfortable being with a guy period. So its been about a week since we started dating and every time we get some what close all i can do is think of my ex girlfriend. What should i do i feel so stupid and so confused i havent felt like this since i first came out five years ago?

Don't feel dumb, changing from being with one gender to the next can be scary. If you meet the right person [guy in your case], it will sail more smoothly than this seems to be going. If you're uncomfortable and don't like the situation, end it. Do not stay in a relationship you're not happy with. Don't drag Oscar along, it's not fair to either of you.    Remember, we're young. Being scared and confused is normal. It happens to the best of us. Break it off with him for now. Tell him the truth, tell him you're confused, tell him you don't want to be in a relationship you're not comfortable in. If you feel this way, let him know that you might try it out if you become more comfortable.

If you need DIFFERENT advice, write again.

-Alice

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