Question: i fell in love with this girl 2 years ago we were doing that on and off thing. well idk for a while things seemed good then she broke it off. after that she would say she loves me and still cares alot about me and wants to be with me. but yet 2 months later she questioned the love she had for me. which hurt alot then couple weeks later she called me something that i am not. she thinks i should get over it but it hurts that someone you love so much calls u something that ur not. then after all that settled down, i started talking to this other girl, i like her alot but she's pushing me into something im not ready for. i mean i do like her alot. i do want something with her in the near future but im just not ready yet. because im still in love with the other girl.ive told this girl im not ready but she keeps pushing and pushing. it doesnt help the fact that the girl im in love with tells me yesterday and today that she loves me and still wants to be with me. she even planned out our life together baiscally...what should i do? im caught in a jam and i dont know what to do!

 Sondra, talk to her. If you are sure she has changed, and wants to be with you, and you are sure you want to be with her, give it another shot. Ask her what she wants/needs out of a relatoinship, and then you tell her what you want/need. If you feel that it is worth another shot, go for it. Something beautiful may emerge from all of this.

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