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Question: Alice, seriously, I am freakin' out.
Females have been on my mind a lot lately. They're all I can freakin' think about, but with that obsession comes fear. I am so scared of commiting, last time I did that I got hurt really bad. She was my everything, we were together for 2 years.. we lived together, slept together ha, we even worked at the same place. I loved her, did everything for her... and yeah.. the sex was amazing. But I'm scared of putting my heart out there again, plus.. I'm not totally over her quite yet. I don't know what I should do.
Do you think I should get out there, get over my commitment fear and start dating again, or should I stay by myself?
You should never give up completely on love. I think that you should consider going back out and trying to find someone, but only when you are ready. Try going out on a small, meaningless dates. Just to get used to the feeling again. Maybe go with a friend to a resturant, or a movie. This will allow you to get used to the feelign again, without being too impersonal. Obviously, there won't be a connection with one of your freidns, but the point is to just get you used to going on dates again. Just post again if you need anmore help.
-Alice
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