Question:I have a girlfriend who I've been with for a year and a half on and off. She lives in NY while I live in Georgia... Well I recently found out that a friend of mine, who I am really close to, likes me. But she also has a girlfriend. I've liked my friend but I put it in a " never happen"  catergory you can say.... We are both happy when we are together... Do you think we should leave our current girlfriends to be together or what we should do.. Cause I really like this girl. And I don't want to screw up...

" One must always have an affair in their relationship; even if it has to be with your partner."-Unknown

Follow your heart.  Lucky for you, while I cannot tell you what to do, I can give you some tips and tasks to help you in the right direction.  Of course long distance relationships are hard. That is obvious. What I would suggest you try is; make a list of your feelings for the girl in New York, and then a list of feelings for the girl you like. Take the lists to heart, and really think about what you'll be giving up, and what  you'll be gaining. Maybe, because the relationship is 'off and on', you two should take some time with other people and see how you feel about each other later. If she really loves you, she will understand and respect your descision. I hope this is helpful to you.

 -Alice

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