I really don't know what to do....

I am Bi and I've had the same boyfriend for almost two years...but in that amount of time I realized that I was bi. I made this realization through my best friend. I would hang out with her and we would be sitting on the couch watching TV and I would be thinking to myself how hot she looked in her tanktop...and what would happen if we made out. While I had a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows now that I am Bi and he is ok with me "experimenting" with other girls like me. At the beginning of this year my best friend told me she was a Lesbian which at the time got me REALLY excited. I like her alot, and I've had on going fantasies of her...and I even told her once I wanted to kiss her...the thing is she said that I'm just too close a friend, and it's not worth the "risk." What do I do...? Give up and worry about just my boyfriend or keep entertaining these thoughts in my head secretly...or not so secretly?

When I got into a relationship with my best friend, we were both very scared that things wouldn't work out, and we would hate each other, or rather, I'd hate them. At first, I was sore about the subject because I love them. Of course, after a while, I realized it was for the better. We're only teenagers, and things have to roll at their own pace and work themselves out. If she's really a good friend, then you shouldn't worry about you two not being friends anymore. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you...ask her if she does. And if she does, tell her that you want to try it out, no strings attached. If things work, then let them be, if they don't, patch your friendship.

If you don't think that it's possible for any of this to happen, especially the friendship thing, then I'd say stick with your boyfriend if you truely care about him, if you don't, don't stay in a relationship that you're going to be untrue to.

Hope this helps.

-Alice.

ok so here is the deal. Me and my ex are good friends we talk a couple of days when she isnt swampt with school work. she randomly sends me texts messages on my cell like just wanted to say good morrning and have a good day. and some times when she ims me its hey sweety and such today she asked about my day and i told her i had a head acke so she said i would kiss it but its kind of hard to do through the comp. i was joking and made a flirty comment and she responed with a smile with its tounge out. now we have both admited we had feelings for each other before. but we both were seeing some one else. but now i am not and i am not sure if she is. i dont want her to feel cornerd or anythng cause she is younger then me but she is the only thing i think of. listening to music and if i could go do it all over agian i would if it ment one more night in her arms and to see her smile. but i dont know if she still feels the same. i dont want to be making something out of nothing. do you have any sugestions on what to do?

Ask her how she feels. Just because she's younger than you, doesn't mean that she's going to feel cornered. Allow her to make the choices for now. Don't pressure, just ask her questions, and give her time to answer and toss the question around for awhile. If she isn't ready now, wait a while, ask her later. Time is key. Remember that, just be sure to stay in contact with her.

 -Alice

Hey ya'll, im emily...i love to write poetry, especially about what's on my mind....so this is a poem i wrote, enjoy!!

Four letter words. Love....Hate.....Rapre.......even dyke.

Words so strong they can make you or brake you.

You take one look and me and say dyke. You think this is a word used to discribe a lesbian.

But its not.

Stop and ask and i will tell you

it Hurts

Stop and ask and i can tell you

50% of homosexual teens dont make it to there 20s

Stop and ask why and i will tell you 

Suicide.

So next time think before you lable me

Then next four letters you say could brake me.