"I'm really confused and have no one to talk to about it. ??? "
That really sucks. I also have noone i can talk to about such things, as I think I would completly freek my family out if i approached them and i can't talk to my friends about it because they would either freek out or just wouldn't get it. I don't think i can trust them with something like that. All I can say is God bless the man who invented the internet
If you ever just need someone to talk to, feel free to write me

Thanks chimei. yea the last one could work because Ive moved from TN so i still have friends that she doesnt know bout. and foofighter thanks for the support. im here if u need to talk too.

Post edited by: SoN40, at: 2007/05/29 00:24

Post edited by: SoN40, at: 2007/05/29 00:25

Just tell her, and if she's really your friend she'll still be your friend regardless. Also, if you do not tell her you will never know if she felt the same. Good luck!

I had this happen to me. She knew I liked her, even though I never said, and she liked me too, but never told me. And by the time I found out she got a boyfriend and I got heart broken.
I think you should come out to her, if she'd already suspected (like my friend did) it won't be a suprise. You could try dropping hints too, that helps.
If she's fine about you being gay, you could drop hints about liking her, or just admit you have feelings for her. Don't tell her how strongly you feel though (unless she feels the same), because it might freak her out if you declare undying love or whatever.

I hope everything works out for you *hugs*

Thanks to everyone!!!!!!

Man I know that sux.. I have liked too many of my friends. I have told most of them but so far none of them has worked out. The best advice I can give you is to come out to her. If she acts in a positive way then try to take it a step further. If not then sorry but it is time to move on.