So here's the problem. My best friend and I were really close. We spent every spare time together, and we had a lot of fun. I fell head over heels in love with her. I thought she felt the same way for me, because she never had a boyfriend and she would always make jokes about us being a couple and being lesbians. Then she started to get other friends and sort of ditch me for them, so I became jealous, thinking that she was leaving me for them. She yelled at me saying that best friends can get through anything and that I'm just being paranoid and creating drama. so, we started to fight alot. and now, we don't even talk. I asked her one day why she wasn't talking to me and she said that she thought I was mad at her and that she just didn't want to make things worse. Then she said that she still wants to talk to me, but that she doesn't want to be everything anymore. Then i asked her if she wanted to be best friends anymore, and she said that she doesn't want a best friend anymore. she ripped my heart out. We have a mutual friend who is in the middle of this and she told me that my ex-best friend said that shit just happened between us, and that she didn't want it to, but it did. Also, I keep seeing my ex best friend sneak glances at me when she thinks I'm not looking, and I've been told that everytime my name comes up in a conversation, she gets this expression on her face. Some days she is just really happy and other days when I am around talking to other people, she is quiet and has this sad look on her face. I have always attributed that to my wishful thinking, but I have been told that others have noticed her actions too. I am just so hurt and confussed right now. What should I do? How do I get over her or win her back? I have been just ignoring her and not talking to her because I have been told that people want what they can't have, but it's been almost a month now since we last talked and I have to share a desk with her everyday in class, so I am at my ropes end. I can't keep up this happy facade for much longer. ANY ADVICE???????????

My advice to ask if you want to talk about your issues and what ways you two can improve them.
And if things don't go well, well Time does heal alot.
I had this friend who I was best friends with for a year then I got a boyfriend. I was stupid and didnt want to be her friend because I did like her as well. Having a boyfriend and a girl that I liked was not a good situation. So for the whole summer we didnt talk. But when school started up, we started talking again and now we are friends. Not as close but maybe thats for the better.
Hope I could help in some way

Wow been there done that. Not many people who haven't. It seems like no matter what you do or say to her she comes back with something to ruin that. I think you should just try to let everything go and move on, or if you want to try and resolve things tell her exactly what she told you, your best friends and you CAN get through this. I don't think you always have to put on a happy face, that can hurt yopu more in the end. Don't be afraid to show her that you ARE in fact being hurt by this and that she really does mean a lot to you. The glances she gives you are most likely her way of showing you that she misses you and/or is hurt by the way things ended.
hope everything works out!!

Talk!
Thats the answer and all I can give. Say Your feelings!!