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Re:Trying to come out. UPDATE - (I DID IT! OMG!) (1 viewing)
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Trying to come out. UPDATE - (I DID IT! OMG!) 2007/07/05 01:29 Karma: 2  
OMG I CAME OUT TODAY AAAASHHHHHH!H!H!H!H!!H!!!!11 HAHAHA its.. 07/07/07 (holy)

OK OK .. Alyssa and Paul were talking to me.. telling me to just do it.. I made my mum a cup of tea and resolved to tell her, i gave her tea and went back to my room. Practically shouted at myself to get her to come through... got i havnt even been out for an hour.. this is like the best feeling.. anyway i called her through
me: "you know years ago, in the car. When you asked me if i was gay? Well.. i am gay"
her: "WELL I GUESSED THAT!.. WELL! No grandchildren from you then!"
Then she asked if i wanted her to tell my nana and all.. but it went fine! (i knew it would.. yeah)
EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

feelings: skl['ghwruigb[wrioneh serkl'gv'vpi]phbpie[pjse[vjdro[ibjr[obuirrbdbbb!!!1!!1!1!1!111!!!!!ONEONEONEELEVEN!



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Ugh coming out is the hardest and most stupidly easy thing to do. I cant believe how hard i'm finding it just to say three words. I'm only trying to tell my mum who i know for a fact will be accepting, i've been trying nearly every day for over a week, and i've tried to so many ways, its not with the means of telling i'm having the problems, its with just actually saying it. Ive went through so many methods to try lol, the most rediculous one was writing it on the fridge with the letters. I think this is why ive been feeling sick for a while. So does anyone have any suggestions on the how?

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Re:Trying to come out. 2007/07/07 00:19 Karma: 0  
When I came out to my mom, I wrote her a letter. I kept it near me until I finally found the nerve to go into the living room and give it to her.

Or if you want to tell her face-to-face, try to bring it up in conversation. Then it might as dramatic as just coming out of nowhere and saying it.

I'm not sure if I helped any, but good luck.
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Re:Trying to come out. 2007/07/07 01:06 Karma: 0  
Even though I could totally tell you write now since we're talking I'll write it out for everyone, in case someone else wants it.

Well as you know I'm as out as possible without putting it on the international news. It was in the local newspaper. But coming out sucks and I could never do it again.

First off, remember Ida. (I told yew I told yew I told yew.) And then like you said, you know your mum will be cool with it. She knows about me. And she's asked you already, etc etc. Though that doesn't make it any easier. I'm sure she alreeady knows.

I wrote my mum a letter too. I wrote up at like 4:00 and just wrote it and gave it to her before I could stop myself. Then I fled to my room. But still, a letter is a good way for you to explain and say everything without actually having to face her. My friends all actually asked me (I guess I'm bad at pretending to like boys?) And with my gram and aunt (the one you've talked to) I was just like, "I need to tell you-" And they were all, "Yeah I already know." And I'm pretty sure you'll get one of those reactions.

It really does make you feel sick. And I've seen you all but pull your hair out when it came to telling Ida. And I've heard you with your mum.

Also remember that I can tell her for you while you're listening. Or bring her into an msn convo and we can do it that way. Or something.

Haha also remember that between Paul and I you've got another year tops before we kick you out. ^_^

Love you Tony!
Alyssa
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Re:Trying to come out. UPDATE - (I DID IT! OMG!) 2007/07/09 05:35 Karma: 0  
Congrats on coming out, man!
You're lucky to have such a good coming-out experience.
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Re:Trying to come out. UPDATE - (I DID IT! OMG!) 2007/07/09 20:37 Karma: 0  
Congratulations!
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Re:Trying to come out. UPDATE - (I DID IT! OMG!) 2007/07/09 22:32 Karma: 0  
YAYYYYY TONEHPANTZ
"I Demolish my bridges behind me - then there is no choice but to move forward" -Fridtjorf Nansen
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